3ml's After The Break-Up Theory #1

A relationship breakup, often referred to simply as a breakup, is the termination of a usually intimate relationship by any means other than death.

Wikipedia said so.

A breakup is something that every relationship has to go through if both of you are not happy anymore whether it's a mutual or painful breakup.

3ml said so.

When breaking up in a relationship, each person SHOULD HAVE BEEN INFORMED.

Christopher Lao said so.

Okay, here's the deal. I'm not writing this blog because I just had a breakup with my girlfriend or I will have one very soon (because I'm not). I just have a lot of thoughts on information about what people feel and do after the breakup.

So basically, these are just my opinions and these are NOT based from my experience.

It's all about constructive and sarcastic criticisms put together in one.

These are the things that people often feel or do after the breakup:

Everything Is Gonna Be Okay

Instantly after the breakup, there's instances that you'll just gonna agree to the decision that was made because both of you are in a stage of having an inflated ego. This always happens after a big argument.

Here's an example

Girl: Yada yada yada...break na tayo! Akala mo!
Boy: Ah ganun! Edi sige! break kung break!
Girl: Talaga! I don't want to talk to you ever again!
Boy: Okay lang sakin!
Girl: oktnxbye!

See??? Both of them are saying things without thinking.

But after a minute, hour, or day, they pondered about the things that just had happened. Deep in their minds, both of them are thinking that everything is gonna be okay. He/She will call within the day or the day after to try to work things out and talk about the things without getting angry at each other. It really depends, though, whether they choose to reconcile or end it for good.